It happened!
It happened, He’s here, and he’s perfect. And yes, HE!
First, Sorry for the delay. My “textbook” surgery hit a few hiccups and as a result, I’ve been laying flat on my back for a better part of a week. I will continue to be doing this for another 8 or so days, but shall explain after the expected photo of the newest, healthy member of our family.
Oliver Zachary King, Born 9.26am, Wednesday 24th November weighing 2680 grams, or 5 pound 15 ounces. He has beautiful blue eyes, brown hair and has spent the past week being a perfectly placid baby.
Ollie, as he is affectionately known spent two and a half days in the special care nursery for low blood sugar levels. At one point he did have to be canulated, but quickly improved and was back with me on the ward by Saturday lunch time.
I on the other hand, have had some issues.
The epidural needle punctured my spinal fluid, causing a leak which messed with the pressures in the fluid around my brain. It’s left me with debilitating headaches that even regular doses of Morphine could not, for the first five days touch. The anethetist did try and patch the leak, with a “blood patch”, but thanks to the appalling state of my veins after my weekly IVIG treatments, was only able to get 11ml of blood, instead of the required 20ml. Needless to say, I am not willing to go back and try again!
I was eventually released with a take home prescription for drugs which are strong enough to keep me suitably dizzy and couch ridden for another 8 days. Not the nice, civil planned C-section I had hoped for.
Consequently, I breastfed for 5 days before Oliver’s weight plummeted, and the Peads and Lactation consultant agreed that the sheer volume of extra pain drugs had probably stripped my milk of the fats needed. So Ollie takes bottles now, and is finally starting to “perk up” a little.
He makes every single ache worth it.
















i have followed your story since before Ariana was born and was so excited for you and your family when i read Ollies BA, you have amazed me with your strength thru everything and i just want to congratulate you and your lovely family on Olivers birth he is absolutely gorgeous, and he is one lucky little man to have a mummy like you
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Aw Love the photo of you with Lucy and Oliver. Sorry your headaches are still there, I hope they leave soon!
Congrats again you did amazing!!
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Still elated for you, Tam! Hope the headaches subside very soon!! Love of love!
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Outta the park home run, Tam! He’s BEAUTIFUL!! I’m so happy for you, for your family. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and sending healing in your direction. Thanks for coming up for air and using your precious energy to post this greatly anticipated update. It’s so good to see you and Oliver-Spud and Lucy… so wonderful to know that you’ve made it through a truly incredible birthing experience.
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Oh Tam I just want to say COngratulations again on the safe arrival of gorgeous Ollie.. Love all your photos and especially of you and Ollie… Im glad all has gone well and that you finally have the arrival of your beautiful handsome prince… Congrats again… xo
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Oh honey, congrats. I’m so happy for you. He is absolutely perfect.
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